Some people can let go of conflict quickly and move on without a second thought. Others, however, have a harder time releasing past hurts, especially if their emotions run deep or they feel betrayed. In astrology, certain zodiac signs are more prone to holding grudges—sometimes for days, sometimes for years. These signs don’t forgive easily, and they certainly don’t forget. Whether it’s due to their emotional depth, stubborn nature, or protective instincts, the following three zodiac signs are known for keeping score and holding on to resentment the longest.
Scorpio
Scorpio is perhaps the most infamous sign when it comes to holding grudges. As a water sign ruled by Pluto, the planet of transformation and the underworld, Scorpio feels everything intensely. When someone wrongs them, it’s not just an offense—it feels like a deep betrayal that cuts to the soul. Scorpios don’t trust easily, and when that trust is broken, they rarely give second chances. They may not explode in the moment, but their silence is often more telling. Scorpios are strategic and patient; they won’t always lash out right away but may wait for the right moment to confront or even get even. What makes their grudge-holding so intense is that they tend to relive the pain over and over in their minds, feeding the flame of resentment. Forgiveness is possible—but only if they see genuine remorse and effort to make amends.
Taurus
Taurus may seem easygoing on the surface, but once they’re hurt, they’re not quick to let it go. As a fixed earth sign, Taurus is incredibly stubborn and resistant to change. When someone wrongs them, they may not confront the issue immediately, but the memory will stay lodged in their mind for a long time. Taurus doesn’t forget easily, and their natural sense of loyalty means they expect the same in return. Any breach of trust or disrespect can feel like a personal attack. Unlike Scorpio’s emotional intensity, Taurus holds onto grudges more quietly. They may simply shut someone out, build walls, and refuse to engage. They believe in fairness and can be unforgiving if they feel taken advantage of. To a Taurus, actions speak louder than words, so making amends requires consistent, tangible effort over time.
Cancer
Cancer, another water sign, is deeply emotional and sensitive. They may not seem like the grudge-holding type at first, but their powerful memory and emotional vulnerability make it hard for them to let go of pain. Cancer often gives a lot in relationships and feels deeply hurt when others don’t reciprocate or take advantage of their kindness. Their grudges often stem from emotional wounds rather than ego. Once hurt, Cancer may withdraw into their shell, replaying the situation repeatedly in their mind. While they may not seek revenge like Scorpio or dig their heels in like Taurus, they will remember the pain for a long time. Emotional betrayal, broken trust, or feeling neglected can leave lasting scars. They may forgive eventually, but it takes time, reassurance, and emotional healing.
While anyone can hold a grudge under the right circumstances, Scorpio, Taurus, and Cancer are the zodiac signs most likely to let resentment linger. Their emotional depth, strong values, and powerful memories contribute to their tendency to hold on rather than let go. Understanding these traits can help in managing conflicts and fostering healthier relationships with these signs. After all, even the deepest grudges can be softened with time, empathy, and genuine care.
FAQs:
Do these signs hold grudges out of spite?
Not always. Often, it’s less about revenge and more about emotional protection or feeling deeply wounded.
Can a Scorpio ever truly forgive?
Yes, but it takes time, honesty, and often a major effort to rebuild broken trust.
Why is Taurus so unforgiving?
Taurus values loyalty and stability. When someone disrupts that, they feel shaken and betrayed, which makes forgiveness difficult.
